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Family Values and Traditions Kit

Choose the traditions you want to carry forward.

$24 Proposed price · USD

Values prompts, tradition designer, annual calendar, roles and reflection cards.

  • Notion companion · Notion
  • Start here · 4-page PDF + text instructions
  • Illustrated guide · PDF · 25 pages
  • Reusable planning tools · Fillable PDF · 16 pages · 77 fields
  • Editable tools · Word · .docx · 16 pages
  • Fictional worked example · PDF · 16 pages
  • Quick reference · PDF · 2 pages
  • Offline reading companion · HTML

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For one small tradition, with room to change it.

Families wanting traditions that reflect what matters to them.

A useful time to begin: a holiday, move or new child prompts a family reset.

Begin with My values for anyone who wants personal reflection, then agree one shared action together. People may speak, draw, contribute later, pass or stop. Adults keep responsibility for safety, care and spending.

Adapt the prompts to your family's religious, cultural and personal values. No single set of values is prescribed.

One shared place for one small tradition.

The Notion companion lays out the same four steps in a workspace you can make your own.

Start at the illustrated home: Listen and choose, Make a manageable plan, Try it in real life, and Keep room to change. Each step has its own pages, and the planning pages begin blank.

Actual Notion home page of Family Values and Traditions Kit: the title, the Start Here callout and the first illustrated cardsEnlarge the dashboard
The actual Notion companion · Four steps, in order
Actual Notion Traditions (database on Our annual calendar) page in its Fictional example view with fictional examplesEnlarge the Traditions database
The optional Traditions database in the actual Notion companion. The Fictional example view holds fictional records only; your own plans go in Your plans.

Reflect, then choose

My values is a page to copy somewhere private. One shared action is where you agree one thing people are willing to try. Different reasons can stay part of the plan.

Plan the whole job

Tradition designer gives the idea its smallest version. Roles and capacity names the hidden work and who freely agreed to each part.

Try it, then decide

Next three opportunities records what happened. Our annual calendar and the Traditions database, with Your plans, Dates, By decision and Fictional example views, are optional. Keep, change, pause or end and A smaller restart close the loop.

Included with the complete kit, not a separate purchase. Requires your own Notion account; PDF and Word work without it. Your duplicate is your own copy. It does not send reminders, contact participants or sync another calendar.

Also in your kit.

Real pages from each included file, alongside the Notion companion. Open a preview to see the detail.

Guide page 'Share the whole job': peach panels on naming the work and asking before assigning, a table of jobs including hidden work with a willing owner and limit, a Simplify, Postpone or Cancel choice for an empty role, and a small illustration of two fathers and two children planning at a table
Illustrated guidePDFGuide page 12. Preparation, reminders and cleanup are part of the activity.
Fillable worksheet 'Roles and capacity' with three rows of paired boxes: job including hidden work, and willing owner and agreed limit
Reusable planning toolsFillable PDFWorkbook page 7 of 16. Type into the boxes in a form-capable PDF reader, or print a copy.
The 'Roles and capacity' worksheet in the editable Word workbook, with paired job and owner boxes
Editable toolsWord · .docxRendered from the actual editable Word file. Fonts and pagination may vary by editor.
The 'Roles and capacity' worksheet filled in for a fictional household: offer the invitation, set out scrap paper and existing pencils, notice the agreed stopping time, each with a willing owner and a limit
Fictional worked examplePDFWorked example page 7 of 16. Luis, Daniel, Nora and Ben are a fictional household, not customer results.
Start Here page 1 'Open one useful file', with an illustration of the fictional family on a sofa and rug, a Your first action panel and a Your choices remain yours panel
Start herePDFStart Here page 1. One first action, and the choice to pass or stop.
Quick reference page with three tinted cards: Invite without pressure, Choose one small action and Check the whole job, each with lines for your own details
Quick referencePDFQuick cards page 1 of 2. Six short prompts to print and keep nearby.
The offline HTML reader for the Family Values and Traditions Kit at a narrow phone width
Offline reading companionHTMLThe actual offline HTML file at a narrow browser width. This companion is for reading; it does not save answers.

Family Values and Traditions Kit · Kit preview

Actual Notion home page of Family Values and Traditions Kit: the title, the Start Here callout and the first illustrated cards

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One kit. Your way to use it.

Start with one useful task, then choose the format that fits. You don’t need to use every tool.

These formats exist in the current review edition. Customer delivery and release checks are still in progress.

  • Notion companion

    The four steps as connected pages, with fictional example toggles and an optional Traditions database. Your own Notion account is required.

    Notion
  • Start here

    What's in the kit, one first action and how to check that typed answers save.

    4-page PDF + text instructions
  • Illustrated guide

    The four steps, a fictional story, how to let traditions change, and what the research does and does not say.

    PDF · 25 pages
  • Reusable planning tools

    Eight blank worksheets, from My values to A smaller restart. Choose only what helps.

    Fillable PDF · 16 pages · 77 fields
  • Editable tools

    The same eight worksheets. Change labels and add room.

    Word · .docx · 16 pages
  • Fictional worked example

    The same worksheets filled in by a fictional household who try, cancel and revise one small tradition. These are not customer results.

    PDF · 16 pages
  • Quick reference

    Six short prompts for inviting, choosing, sharing the work, noticing and deciding.

    PDF · 2 pages
  • Offline reading companion

    The guide, blank prompts and worked example for reading offline. It does not save typed answers.

    HTML

Four steps, in order.

  1. 01. Listen and chooseWhat matters to each of us, and which one action will we try?
  2. 02. Make a manageable planThe smallest version, and who freely agreed to each job
  3. 03. Try it in real lifeUp to three opportunities. What actually happened?
  4. 04. Keep room to changeKeep, change, pause or end. A smaller version or an ending is allowed.

There are no set times. Stop after one attempt if that fits; a skipped or canceled plan creates no catch-up debt.

Before you begin.

Who is this guide for?

Families wanting traditions that reflect what matters to them.

Can I buy this guide yet?

This edition is available to preview while review and delivery checks are completed. Purchases are not open yet; the proposed price may change before release.

What is outside its scope?

Adapt the prompts to your family's religious, cultural and personal values. No single set of values is prescribed.

Which formats can I use?

Use the fillable PDF in a compatible reader, print it, or use the editable Word files. Save, close and reopen a copy to check your answers. The offline HTML companion is for reading and does not save answers. Notion is optional and requires your own account; its customer-copy route is still being checked. Keep your working copy private and check sharing before adding information. Follow the kit's specific consent and privacy instructions.

A place to start, and start again.

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